Monday, June 30, 2008

I think this is a good short story


Please forgive me for my language but I have to use the language that i and my friends use around here.

"This story is deep shit"

- Nhạc Trịnh, chỉ nên nghe khi con người ta đã thấm thía nhiều thăng trầm ở cuộc đời! - Đoạn, ông nốc cạn một cốc, miệng hít hà một hơi. Rồi lại vu vơ nhìn ra ngoài mưa. Mắt ngầu ngầu hoe hoe đỏ, rồi bật khóc...

Dốc sương mù

Thursday, June 19, 2008

Another great song


Hey all,

A buddy of mine sent me the link of this song. I think it is a great song. You have to find it out yourself

YouTube "Torn between two lovers"

Saigon, nhớ


There is no need to say a word

Just listen

YouTube "Em con nho hay em da quen"

Monday, June 16, 2008

A good book to read


This is a good book. Just hope to share with all of you out there.

This is in PDF format. Download here

This is another PDF file (2 pages in 1 for printing purpose) you can rotate the page in PDF to read. Download here

Good luck

Saturday, June 14, 2008

To be the man is be where you needed the most

There is no fancy thing about the above saying. The only thing that i want to mention here is what kind of "things" that you provided for your love ones. What kind of "things" that your love ones need

And be careful, if you would not be there when you were needed, someone might be

1. Material stuff, most of the time this is what we think about instantly. Yeah, people need support with this all the time. This is very very easy to provide and if you think that this is the only thing, the most important thing then you are about to be hurt really really bad.

2. Time, Did we give our love ones all the time that they need from us? Did we patiently listen to their problems?
3. Love, Did we stay with them when their feeling is down? Did we hug them when they feel emptiness is all around them?

The two bottom ones are very hard to provide, but if you don't give them out, you will never receive them back.

Do it today
1. Give them the love that they are hungry from you. It would never be too much to love some one.
2. Give your love ones as much time as they need from you that you could afford.
3. Work hard so your love ones could have a better material life.

And you will have a happy family and you will be a happy person.

Every people deserves to have a happy family

Yes, every people deserves to have a happy family.

1. When you are happy, you can tell your good news to other members of your family to have the happiness increased that many times.

2. When another member of your family has a good news, they could tell you that good news and it could make your day.

3. When you don't have a good day, falling back in soft, warm open arms of your family members could cut the sadness to half.

4. When you feel mistreated by the world, falling back in warm open arms of your family members give you the feeling that you are right, you have supporters.

5. When you feel you are lonely in this world, finding yourself between the arms of your family member let you know that you are not alone in the world.

6. When you feel you are worthless in this world, falling back in warm open arms of family member will make you feel that you are still important for them.


And please DO IT NOW before it is TOO LATE

- Do not let your family members feel that they are not important to you.
- Do not let your family members feel lonely in this world.
- Do not let your family members hungry for your loving.
- Do not let your family members hungry for your caring.
- Do not let your family members hungry for your supporting.


and because it is you;

- The one who is little in this world.
- The one who is lonely in this world.
- The one who is hungry for loving, caring, supporting.
- The one who needs a family.

YouTube: "25 minutes too late"

Saturday, June 7, 2008

Everything will be over somedays and there is no forever pain

I am going to meet her today. The main reason is for picking up the rest of my belongings. Another thing is that we just want to meet the other the last time before we move on.

There will be no game playing today.
There is no hidden plan today.
Today is just for us to change from husband-wife to friends.
Today is for us to tell the other all the sweet things that we did not let the other one know before.

It was not so bad for me yesterday. I felt better. I accepted that she was there with me before and it was the most exciting part of my life so far. We went through hard time together. We leaned against the other to move forward. We both learned so many things from the other. There is nothing good that i would not do for her and she told me that she would do the same for me.

The sun is rising up. A new beautiful day is out there. Life is a chain of doors. If one closed then there is another one opened. There is no need for me to keep holding the unhappy thing that we could not change. Life for each of us is not a straight line. There is no warranty that we just cross the other only once.

We just want to keep the happiest memories with us.

Tuesday, June 3, 2008

What family is for !

My feeling was so bad lately. I came home after a 12 hours driving back from Rhode Island. I met my younger brother online. We chatted a little bit then i told him about my issue. He is 21 years old. He is my younger brother but most of the time i think of him as my old son too.

The second sentence that he told me after he patiently listen to my problem was "I am sorry that i could not be there to hug you bro!". He also told me that the relationship between three of our brothers is just so weird. It is just not like other brotherhoods that he knows of. He called our brotherhood is a "blessing". He also reminded me an old story between us. I was so caring for him at that time so i pushed him hard. And once time, i got a little bit happy and told him a joke "You are son of our Mom, why do i have to take care of you so much like you are my son!". This is one of the best happiness that a person can have.

We bonded together by blood and also by other things. Blood family is the place that you fall back when all other family types fail.

Lessons that i learned from my brothers

1. Don't screw up any family that you have.
2. Blood family is the place that you will always be accepted.