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What the heck is going on ... ? (sorry, it is just about driving)

The first scenario, I was driving on the road and got caught in a mist, some foggy bridges. I used to think about that kind of situation and it would scare the sh.t out of me.
Yeah, just imagine that you are driving around 70miles/hour (120km/hour) then in a sudden, you can only see 10-15 feet (3-5 meters) ahead of you. What will go through your mind at that moment:

• You ask yourself if the road ahead has a curve.
  
• You ask yourself if you are still in your lane or running into the next lane.
  
• You ask yourself if the drivers behind you are in aware of what is going on here or not.
  
• You ask yourself if the cars in front of you are trying to stop.
  
• You ask yourself if you should slow down or keep the same speed.
• You ask yourself if you keep moving forward what you will rely on to keep the right direction.
• ............................
  

The second scenario, it is a clear day, and I can see way far ahead of me. I see a curve on the road, maybe 300 feet (100 meters) ahead then without notice, i start to turn adjust the turning wheel as if i am at that curve already. Holly crap, the drivers who are behind and next to me will blow their car's horn at me............

What the heck should i do ... ? (again, sorry, it is about driving too)

Dude, just do not get panic, alright !!! Yeah, just slowly reduce your car's speed down a bit. Just concentrate to the distance that is right in front of you, it is the only part that matter, the rest is just relevant. Look for the lane marks on your driving side and right in front of you. They will keep you in the right direction and in the safe zone.

So what the heck i am talking about ... !!! (seriously, this is not about driving any more)

I was driving to my dance class. I was thinking about my dear friend who is going through a tough time of her life. I got caught in a horrible rain, it started out just as any normal rain then in a sudden i saw little pieces of ice. Damn, it was a hail.

I used to laugh at people when they had to pull over to the side of the road because they could not see the road to drive. And this was the first time in my driving life, i could not see anything ahead of me.
For a split second, i asked myself "what the heck should i do ? pull over or keep driving ? what thing should i look at to keep me in the safe zone and do not run into people ?"
In the next second, i talked to myself "F..k this, i am not going to stop here, i will go to where i planned to go to. Watch me, i will just need to keep a safe distance with the car next to me then i will be there safely..."

I instantly linked my driving situation to one of my friend's situation so...

This is for you, my dear, who is fighting against a tough situation in your life.

• Don't get panic.
• Don't try to worry too far ahead.
• Don't wear yourself out with millions of IF QUESTIONS.
• Do rely on things are in present to make decision.
• Do believe that things, people around will be there to provide supporting, guiding.
• Do believe that the foggy, tough time would be over any minute, so just take care of the tough parts right ahead.